In terms of ideology, the most important thing is to "treat people as humans". That is to say, do not ignore the fact that they are first and foremost "human" because of their identity. For example, as a teacher, I should at least respect the students' dignity.
In terms of life, the main thing is formal work. I finally have a decent job and a decent income, no need to look for work, let alone ask for living expenses. After starting work, I gradually got used to going to bed and getting up early, washing and changing clothes frequently, and recently started cooking by myself. On the premise of fulfilling my duties, I also strive to develop hobbies, including reading, exercising, and playing games. After buying a game console and an e-reader, I haven't used my phone much. What's even luckier is that I have expanded my social circle because of this, such as meeting with Ayin, the author of the public account "Trial and Error", in Guangzhou, and playing table tennis with my colleague Y. My friend F also said he would invite me to play offline Mahjong, looking forward to it!
However, it's not all happiness. For example, after starting work, the conflicts between my mother and I have become more and more apparent, and we can't communicate, so we can only remain silent. In addition, after graduation, everyone scattered to different places, K is in Shandong, N is in Guangdong, and H is in Hubei, but he doesn't have much time off either, so we rarely get together. K said we'll see each other during winter break, but I have to go back to my hometown for Chinese New Year during winter break, so what can I do!
In terms of works, the author who has had the greatest influence on me is Adler. His book "Inferiority and Superiority" has made me work actively and communicate proactively. There is also Shi Tiesheng, his "Notes on the Art of Living" is very interesting, and so is "Me and the Altar of Earth". It's always refreshing to read them. The favorite TV show I watched this year is a Japanese drama called "Restart Life".